Things to Remember
At the NIH –
Be sure to sign in and out at the nurses’ station and have them take the child off pass when you return to the hospital. Otherwise you will not be able to order food service.
If you need an escort to/from one place to another make sure you check with the nurse at least 30 minutes prior to your appointment so that an escort can be arranged. Kristen accompanied us up to a number of appointments. After two days we found it easier to navigate through the building.
Don’t be afraid to order food with your child’s meal, especially if you are the only parent with your child. You will not have a lot of free/down time to catch a bite to eat. You can order food or snacks any time during the day. Take the menu with you so you can order food on the fly and it will be waiting for you when you get back to the room.
Kristen will give you a schedule of appointments for the week. The amount of time she blocks for every appointment is just an estimate. Appointments may run long or short depending on the circumstances. Just pack a lot of patience with you.
Make a list of questions and take them with you. I emailed our questions to Dr. Han in advance and she forwarded them to each doctor. The physicians were able to address our concerns at each visit.
Don’t worry if your child refuses to do something. We just tried to go with the flow. Fortunately for us, Nicholas managed to get through everything that was on the schedule. It might not be the same for every family.
Kristen was our go to person. She kept things on track and we could always contact her with any question or concern.
The TV’s in the hospital room can also play DVD’s and be used as a computer. You can ask the nurse to bring in a mouse and keyboard if your child likes to play on the computer.
At the Children’s Inn –
Every morning (during the week) there is always orange juice, coffee, tea and small muffins available in the lobby area. Throughout the day there may be cookies or light snacks available.
We were able to do laundry a few times during the week. However, empty washers and dryers were more difficult to find mid week. Clem and I took turns running back and forth from the hospital to the Inn a few times to do loads of laundry while Nicholas was having tests/procedures done.
There are a number of activities that go on at the Inn during the week (Bingo, ice-cream social, parent gatherings, sibling activities, etc)
Prior to your arrival –
Dr. Han will contact you by phone to go over the procedures/tests. She will ask you to provide medical records for the previous year. She will also ask you to keep a 3 day food diary on your child. (either Thursday, Friday, Saturday or Sunday, Monday, Tuesday)
Favorite Memories
The number of times we rode the elevator up and down to kill time. Nicholas would always ask the people that were getting on “What floor?” and tell them to have a nice day when they got off.
Being asked by a couple for directions to Phlebotomy as I rode down the elevator by myself. I was happy to oblige. (They thought I worked there)
When Nicholas was asked by a nurse about his sister – He told her that he missed her but that he had to go on vacation for peace and quiet. Ashley was getting on his one nerve.
Sitting in the Audiology waiting room and listening to Nicholas asking Clem over and over again if he wanted a beer.
Hearing Nicholas ask Miss Kristen if she would cover his shift at the hospital on Saturday because he had to fly home (he was pretending to be a doctor at the time). She politely said yes.
Just having the ability to watch Nicholas interact with Amy and Irma. At one point I told Amy that I was going to start calling her Ashley because they were acting so much like sister and brother.
Our NIH adventure was an exhausting but awesome experience. Somehow just like with everything else, we found the strength and energy to get through each day. I can remember lying in bed earlier in the week thinking about how I would have given anything to participate in a research project on WAGR Syndrome. Our dream had finally come true.
WAGR Syndrome is a part of our life. We have just come to accept things for what they are. Nicholas proved to us again what a special boy he really is. He completed everything that was asked of him. We love him and Ashley more than anything in the world. We can always count on Nicholas to make us laugh and smile. I will never get tired of hearing him tell me that I am the best mom.
Nicholas and I were so lucky to have Clem accompany us on our trip. He is my rock and tries very hard to keep me sane. I know I make it difficult at times, yet he is always there to love and support our family. I am so glad that God has blessed me with such a wonderful husband.
We are happy to share our NIH experience with you. If you have any questions please feel free to contact us at TheMooZoo@aol.com. We have also posted additional NIH photos in the WAGR group photo album.
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